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Verified Reports With Screenshots and Screen Recordings in a Few Hours

Find out if you're on the Tea App & AWDTSG group — and exactly what is said.

Right now, millions of women across the US are comparing notes on men in private groups and apps you can’t see. We check whether you’re in them — before it can impact your reputation, relationships, and peace of mind.

Shield Date gives you a clear, private way to stay in control.

We carry out careful, manual searches across the Tea App and Are We Dating The Same Guy (AWDTSG) Facebook groups, where women share dating experiences — and deliver a straightforward report so you know exactly where you stand.

No guesswork. No drama. Just clarity.

Screenshots & Screen Recording
Discreet & Confidential Checks
Secure Checkout with Stripe
Answered in Hours, Not Days
How It Works

Take control of your reputation, quietly.

This isn't an AI gimmick. It's a real person, going through it by hand — that's what you're paying for.

01

Tell us who to look for

Your name, your city, photo if you have one, and extra details. Takes about 2 minutes.

2 minutes
02

We do the looking

A real person works through the Tea App and the AWDTSG Facebook groups by hand, post by post. No script, no shortcuts.

Human search
03

You know either way

Posted about or not, you get a documented answer with screenshots/video recordings in a few hours.

In a few hours

Not every search is the same

Tea App onlyAWDTSG onlyShield Date
Tea App✓✗✓
Your AWDTSG group✗✓✓
Searched by a personNot clearNot clear✓
Shows where it lookedNot shownNot shown✓
Free removal guideCostlyCostly✓
Client Stories

Real people. Real answers.

Some found something. Some found nothing. All of them stopped guessing.

Shield Date was started by a man who was posted himself. Read the story.

For more reviews and vouches, check out the Reddit thread.

Found posted

Thanks so much. I can't tell you how much I appreciate it Thanks for all the help. I'll leave a review after work Got you. All done appreciate you fr Good to know. Thank you and much appreciated! Review submitted. Thanks once again my guy Thank you! I don't recall any of those names but i know they are usernames, not actual. So nothing recent? Just 3 replies from a year ago? Or is there more to scroll down to? What about the green flags? Those 3 comments all look like negative things I definitely will, thank you so much bro You're a godsend Thank you for your help. It means the world to me. I am going through this trenches with this woman.. Crazy people are crazy people - regardless of gender. Thanks for the check, you're a real one and you deserve the world. Good juju coming your way Appreciate the help bro. Thank you Appreciate it. That nonsense was getting to me You are a life saver. Thank you.. Wow it's incredible how this kind of stalking is even legal. Really appreciate your help

Came back clean

Not in there, thankfully. I left a comment. Thanks man! Thank you so much! You too. You are a godsend. Thanks a ton. I don't see myself so that's good. Peace of mind fr Welp, I'm in the clear! Thanks man! ... Still fucked up that this goes on though. Unless it's a very extreme case, this type of breach of privacy is simply unnecessary. Hi - I don't see myself here. Thank you so much Bet thank you for all the help! None of these are me. Really appreciate and will def leave a review Thank you sir I appreciate you Hey can't thank you enough, I looked at it and did not see myself thank god. These are JUST the Andrews?? Good lord what a mess, these people are out of their minds No man I don't see myself I just recently broke up with I guess what you would call my first real girlfriend and it wasn't on bad terms or anything I just got in my own head about it thank you so much for that your a real dog for that Still good it seems thank you bro you're a legend! I checked the video, im not there.... probably a good thing lol, this gives me peace of mind, thank you. Nope definitely not me, thats a relief. And i can't thank you enough. Going through a divorce and im actually surprised she hasn't sank that low yet. But glad. Amazing - you're the best! Thank you bro appreciate you! I'm not on those. Thank you for checking though. Appreciate what you are doing. Best Greatly appreciated friend. You are the man. Thanks

"Three sleepless days of wondering, answered in 2 hours. I should have just asked sooner."

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Choose Your Protection

See what the Tea App and AWDTSG groups say about you.

Every check is done by hand across the Tea App and your AWDTSG group. Whatever the result, you get screenshots and a screen recording of the search itself.

One payment, never a subscription. Secure checkout by Stripe. We never see your card details.

Why people book searches

Matches that go cold

It felt like a genuine connection, then it went cold out of nowhere. No argument, no reason, nothing you can point to.

Second dates that quietly don't happen

"Something came up" — from someone who seemed genuinely interested the first time round.

Someone brought up Tea

A friend, a coworker or a match mentions they "heard something" about you, and won't say what or from whom.

A messy breakup within the last year

Recent breakup stories are the most common type of Tea post. Most are written in the first six months after the split.

Dating more than one person

Seeing a few people at once is normal, but it’s also the kind of thing that gets posted about.

A relationship getting serious

Finally found someone worth keeping. You don’t want something from the past getting in the way.

FAQ

Frequently Asked Questions

We search the private groups and apps where women discuss men they've dated — mainly the Tea App and Are We Dating The Same Guy Facebook groups — and tell you whether your name comes up, with screenshots and screen recordings as proof.

Men who want to know whether they've been posted online. Most of our clients are dating actively, had a messy break up, or simply care about their online reputation, they have heard these groups exist, and have no way to look inside them.

None of this is on Google. These are private Facebook groups and a women-only app — the content isn't public, it isn't indexed, and getting in as a man is extremely difficult. That's the whole reason the service exists.

The Scan is $59, once. The Watch is $99 for 3 months and the Shield is $239 for a year, each paid once. No subscription, no auto-renew.

Charges appear as SHIELD DATE. Nothing on your statement describes what the service is or what was searched.

Answered in hours, not days. Most reports go out within a few hours of your request.

Your first name, last initial, your age, your city, an email, phone number (optional), and a photo (optional). Posts in these groups often use a first name, age, city and pictures rather than a full name, so a photo is a more reliable way to match a post to you.

Screenshots and screen recordings of the search itself, plus any post mentioning you — dated, so there's no ambiguity about what was said or when.

You still get the full report, showing where we searched and confirming you're clear. For a lot of clients, that's the outcome they were paying for.

The Tea App and the Are We Dating The Same Guy Facebook group covering your region. Groups get renamed, split and archived all the time, so we find the one that covers you now.

No. We don't contact the groups, the people who posted, or anyone else, and nothing in our process identifies you as having requested a scan. It is entirely confidential, and your details are deleted as soon as your report is delivered (for the Watch and the Shield, as soon as your last check is delivered).

You should be skeptical of anyone who promises post removals 100%. We don't make promises we can't guarantee. But, we tell you what's there, give you the evidence, and include a detailed step-by-step guide to the removal process on the Tea App and AWDTSG. Using the proper channels gives you the best chance of getting it removed. We don't contact posters, argue with moderators, or attempt removals on your behalf.

For the Scan: if we're late past 24 hours, you get the full price back. For the Watch and the Shield, every check carries the same 24-hour promise. If one is ever late, you get money back for it, and we still deliver it. Finding nothing isn't a refund case — you still get the screenshots and recordings of every place we looked, which is what proves you're clear.

Already been posted?

Removal services charge hundreds, sometimes thousands, to file a form you can file yourself. Both processes are written out here, free, with the wording you need.

Find out if you've been posted.

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