Find out if you're on the Tea App & AWDTSG group — and exactly what is said.
Right now, millions of women across the US are comparing notes on men in private groups and apps you can’t see. We check whether you’re in them — before it can impact your reputation, relationships, and peace of mind.
Shield Date gives you a clear, private way to stay in control.
We carry out careful, manual searches across the Tea App and Are We Dating The Same Guy (AWDTSG) Facebook groups, where women share dating experiences — and deliver a straightforward report so you know exactly where you stand.
No guesswork. No drama. Just clarity.
Take control of your reputation, quietly.
This isn't an AI gimmick. It's a real person, going through it by hand — that's what you're paying for.
Tell us who to look for
Your name, your city, photo if you have one, and extra details. Takes about 2 minutes.
2 minutesWe do the looking
A real person works through the Tea App and the AWDTSG Facebook groups by hand, post by post. No script, no shortcuts.
Human searchYou know either way
Posted about or not, you get a documented answer with screenshots/video recordings in a few hours.
In a few hoursNot every search is the same
| Tea App only | AWDTSG only | Shield Date | |
|---|---|---|---|
| Tea App | ✓ | ✗ | ✓ |
| Your AWDTSG group | ✗ | ✓ | ✓ |
| Searched by a person | Not clear | Not clear | ✓ |
| Shows where it looked | Not shown | Not shown | ✓ |
| Free removal guide | Costly | Costly | ✓ |
Where do you want us to look?
Every search covers both. Start with the one you’re worried about.
Real people. Real answers.
Some found something. Some found nothing. All of them stopped guessing.
Shield Date was started by a man who was posted himself. Read the story.
For more reviews and vouches, check out the Reddit thread.
Found posted
Came back clean
"Three sleepless days of wondering, answered in 2 hours. I should have just asked sooner."
See what the Tea App and AWDTSG groups say about you.
Every check is done by hand across the Tea App and your AWDTSG group. Whatever the result, you get screenshots and a screen recording of the search itself.
The Scan
Both platforms. One clear answer.
Tea App + AWDTSG searchA full search, both platforms
- Find out if you're on the Tea App
- Are We Dating The Same Guy group search
- Searched by a person, not a script
- Screenshots & screen recordings as proof
- A clear answer either way — found or not found
- A guide to each platform's removal process
- Answered in hours, not days
The Watch
3 months of cover.
Up to 6 checks · Save 72%About $33 a month · No auto-renew
- Everything in the Scan
- A full check every month, done for you
- Plus one extra check a month, whenever you ask
- A report after every check, even when you're clean
- Alerted within hours if anything new appears
- Removal guidance if something is found
- 24/7 priority support
- Covered through every first date
The Shield
Year-round protection.
Up to 52 checks · Save 92%About $19 a month · No auto-renew
- Everything in the Watch
- Your reputation, on your terms
- A full check every month, all year
- Plus one extra check a week, whenever you ask
- A report after every check, even when you're clean
- Alerted within hours if anything new appears
- 24/7 priority support
- Hear it from us first, not from your next date
One payment, never a subscription. Secure checkout by Stripe. We never see your card details.
Why people book searches
Matches that go cold
It felt like a genuine connection, then it went cold out of nowhere. No argument, no reason, nothing you can point to.
Second dates that quietly don't happen
"Something came up" — from someone who seemed genuinely interested the first time round.
Someone brought up Tea
A friend, a coworker or a match mentions they "heard something" about you, and won't say what or from whom.
A messy breakup within the last year
Recent breakup stories are the most common type of Tea post. Most are written in the first six months after the split.
Dating more than one person
Seeing a few people at once is normal, but it’s also the kind of thing that gets posted about.
A relationship getting serious
Finally found someone worth keeping. You don’t want something from the past getting in the way.
Frequently Asked Questions
We search the private groups and apps where women discuss men they've dated — mainly the Tea App and Are We Dating The Same Guy Facebook groups — and tell you whether your name comes up, with screenshots and screen recordings as proof.
Men who want to know whether they've been posted online. Most of our clients are dating actively, had a messy break up, or simply care about their online reputation, they have heard these groups exist, and have no way to look inside them.
None of this is on Google. These are private Facebook groups and a women-only app — the content isn't public, it isn't indexed, and getting in as a man is extremely difficult. That's the whole reason the service exists.
The Scan is $59, once. The Watch is $99 for 3 months and the Shield is $239 for a year, each paid once. No subscription, no auto-renew.
Charges appear as SHIELD DATE. Nothing on your statement describes what the service is or what was searched.
Answered in hours, not days. Most reports go out within a few hours of your request.
Your first name, last initial, your age, your city, an email, phone number (optional), and a photo (optional). Posts in these groups often use a first name, age, city and pictures rather than a full name, so a photo is a more reliable way to match a post to you.
Screenshots and screen recordings of the search itself, plus any post mentioning you — dated, so there's no ambiguity about what was said or when.
You still get the full report, showing where we searched and confirming you're clear. For a lot of clients, that's the outcome they were paying for.
The Tea App and the Are We Dating The Same Guy Facebook group covering your region. Groups get renamed, split and archived all the time, so we find the one that covers you now.
No. We don't contact the groups, the people who posted, or anyone else, and nothing in our process identifies you as having requested a scan. It is entirely confidential, and your details are deleted as soon as your report is delivered (for the Watch and the Shield, as soon as your last check is delivered).
You should be skeptical of anyone who promises post removals 100%. We don't make promises we can't guarantee. But, we tell you what's there, give you the evidence, and include a detailed step-by-step guide to the removal process on the Tea App and AWDTSG. Using the proper channels gives you the best chance of getting it removed. We don't contact posters, argue with moderators, or attempt removals on your behalf.
For the Scan: if we're late past 24 hours, you get the full price back. For the Watch and the Shield, every check carries the same 24-hour promise. If one is ever late, you get money back for it, and we still deliver it. Finding nothing isn't a refund case — you still get the screenshots and recordings of every place we looked, which is what proves you're clear.
Already been posted?
Removal services charge hundreds, sometimes thousands, to file a form you can file yourself. Both processes are written out here, free, with the wording you need.
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